Tough Questions You Never Ask Yourself

A month ago I came across an article: 50 Tough Questions You Never Ask Yourself, but Should by Marla Tabaka. I have reflected on her questions these last couple of weeks and I have decided to share a few of the ones I have been pondering. Introspection is a lost art. All of us can benefit if we would take some time and think through some questions and make the decision to make a few changes. Without any other comments here are few of Marla’s questions:

• What is my definition of success?
• Is my definition well-rounded including all areas of my life?
• What are my three top values?
• Do I incorporate my values into my decision-making?
• Do I feel good about how I treat the most important people in my life?
• Do I feel and express enough gratitude and appreciation for what I have?
• Is my stress level too high?
• What are three things I can do regularly to reduce stress? What stops me from doing them?
• What do I most often choose to ignore?
• What are three things I want to pay closer attention to in 2018?
• Can I be a better listener?
• Do I carefully consider the suggestions of others before I dismiss them?
• If I ask the people I respect to describe my leadership abilities and qualities what are their top five responses?
• On a scale of 1-5 How optimal is my self-care?
• Are there any relationships that I want to repair or improve?
• Do I remain a victim of an experience or belief that I am unwilling to let go?
• Is there anyone with whom I feel resentful and angry?
• Might it serve me well to trust people more? Am I overly controlling?
• What am I afraid of?
• Am I living my passion?

As I stated I did not include all 50 tough questions but enough to get us thinking and reflecting on life. I pray that 2018 will be a year of growth and development for you. I believe that you and I will improve and grow through this year.